Well, I'm back!
I took a long break from my blog and here is why...
Marriage is hard. I never really expected it to be easy but I always thought to myself how we've been together so long already (6 years in January) that it wouldn't be that much different and not that much harder. I was wrong. There's that saying about how "the first year of marriage is always the hardest", I laughed at that. I never thought it would be any harder. But things got extremely complicated after we got married. Sure, things were great for the first few months but they also got really stressful. We were married in September and bought our first house in October. Then Thanksgiving and Christmas were here, then before we knew it it was time for Spring layoff at Andrews work. Spring layoff is always very stressful but with our added mortgage it became so much more stressful than in past years. The stress along with other things put a huge strain on our relationship and we ending up separating for a few months. It was hard but we are back together again and working through all of our problems physically, mentally, emotionally and financially. We love each other very much. We have put way too much into our relationship not to try to make it work. We wouldn't have ever gotten married if we weren't going to make it last. It's been a tough year but we are rebuilding our relationship and I have all the confidence in the world that we will last and that we will be stronger than ever!
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